Teach Your Child to
Finish What They Start
by Joseph Galea
Martial arts training builds
character. Self-confidence,
esteem, and perseverance are
benefits that are connected with learning
the arts.To receive the benefits of
training, you or your child must
participate in classes regularly.
Keep in mind that the good habits
your child develops now, tend to stick
with them as adults. So, if your child
learns to overcome obstacles, and finish
what they start now, chances are they’ll
do the same as adults.
Here are some tips you can
use to help teach your child to finish
what they start:
1.Talk to your child about
the value of achieving something that they work hard for and not giving
up when the going gets tough.
2. Motivate your child by
complimenting them on what they do correctly rather than what they
do wrong. Focus on the positive.
3. Remind your child about
a time in their life that was tough, where they stuck it out and succeeded
in the end.Tell them you have faith in them.
4. Communicate with
your child’s instructor often about how your
child is doing, and let them know if you see any lack of motivation.
The instructor can team up with you to re-motivate your child.
5.Make up games and give a
reward to mark progress. For example: Each time your child can demonstrate
something they learned in class at home, give them a point. Once they
earn 20 points, give them a prize or reward such as getting
to stay up late, or seeing a movie.
New activities are always
exciting but enthusiasm can subside when things get tough.That’s when children want to give up and
quit.Help your child ride out the tough spots and model
perseverance.Teaching your child that success is up to him/her early
in life is a powerful lesson that will help them a lifetime.
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PRINCIPLES
Get Tough
By Bill FitzPatrick
You’ve got to be tough
to do the big things in life
like taking risks, admitting
mistakes, and changing bad
habits.You’ve got to be
tough to do the little things
like biting your tongue,
waiting your turn and
putting up with fools. Selfreliance
and self-confidence
will demand your toughness.Then, you
must temper toughness with kindness,
realizing that many times it will be tough
to be kind.