A Father’s
Three Wishes
by Joseph Galea
I am a Dad. I have a son turning
six this month and a daughter three and a half. I don’t
think I am unlike most Dads out there: I love my children intensely and
I want the
absolute best for them. I feel a strong sense of responsibility for their
character
development, potential for success and their health and safety. I am
very strict regarding
rules, always looking toward their future. It can be as simple as saying "zip
your coat and
put your hat on" when the weather is cold, or as vital as rewarding
them for great behavior
to instill good habits. I take my job as Dad seriously. When I think
of martial arts and
my children, there is no choice: It’s mandatory, just
as there is no choice about attending school. I
am thinking toward the future, knowing that
martial arts gives my children an advantage.
If on Father’s Day, I were granted three
wishes for my children, here’s what I
would ask:
My first wish would be for
my children to grow up with good values. I want them to
be altruistic and honest and to make their
decisions with these values in mind.
The martial arts classroom assists
in promoting these values.
Between kicks and punches,
there are life lessons
taught, reinforcing my
efforts at home.
My second wish would
be for my children to develop into confident, self-assured adults.
I want them to know how to set their own goals and go out and
achieve them.The martial arts teaches both short and long-term
goal-setting.You focus on the next "belt" but you realize that
it is a
small step of many to reach a larger goal. Even black belt is not the
conclusion of training but rather another step towards additional
learning and development, much like life.
My third wish would be for
my children to be safe. Right now this responsibility falls on the
adults who care for them… their mother
and me, their grandparents, teachers, babysitters, etc. But as children
age, the responsibility slowly shifts to them, until they are ultimately
responsible for themselves. If my children ever found themselves in a
"situation," their martial arts knowledge could save their
life.
I don’t expect a genie to pay me a visit on Father’s Day.
However, I believe that the
wishes I would make will be achieved anyway. Like most dads, I am always
looking
to the future, and I never want to hear myself say, "If my kids
had taken martial
arts;maybe things would have been different."
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PRINCIPLES
By Bill FitzPatrick
Learn
There is always more to learn.
Your employees, family, friends
and even your competitors
may all have suggestions that
you can put to profitable use.
Be open-minded.
Observe, read and listen. Be open to
the fact that lots of people are
going to have ideas worthy of
your consideration. Welcome
them. Incorporate the better ideas into
your business and personal dealings.
Find new ideas in books, magazines, videos,
audiotapes, newsletters and on the Internet.
Find new ideas
at conventions, seminars, lectures and by taking evening courses.
Seek new experiences and adventures.
He who dares...wins.
We must guard
against being unchangeable or apathetic.