June 2004 Newsletter

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A Father’s Three Wishes

by Joseph Galea

I am a Dad. I have a son turning six this month and a daughter three and a half. I don’t think I am unlike most Dads out there: I love my children intensely and I want the absolute best for them. I feel a strong sense of responsibility for their character development, potential for success and their health and safety. I am very strict regarding rules, always looking toward their future. It can be as simple as saying "zip your coat and put your hat on" when the weather is cold, or as vital as rewarding them for great behavior to instill good habits. I take my job as Dad seriously. When I think of martial arts and my children, there is no choice: It’s mandatory, just as there is no choice about attending school. I am thinking toward the future, knowing that martial arts gives my children an advantage.

If on Father’s Day, I were granted three wishes for my children, here’s what I would ask:

My first wish would be for my children to grow up with good values. I want them to be altruistic and honest and to make their decisions with these values in mind. The martial arts classroom assists in promoting these values. Between kicks and punches, there are life lessons taught, reinforcing my efforts at home.

My second wish would be for my children to develop into confident, self-assured adults. I want them to know how to set their own goals and go out and achieve them.The martial arts teaches both short and long-term goal-setting.You focus on the next "belt" but you realize that it is a small step of many to reach a larger goal. Even black belt is not the conclusion of training but rather another step towards additional learning and development, much like life.

My third wish would be for my children to be safe. Right now this responsibility falls on the adults who care for them… their mother and me, their grandparents, teachers, babysitters, etc. But as children age, the responsibility slowly shifts to them, until they are ultimately responsible for themselves. If my children ever found themselves in a "situation," their martial arts knowledge could save their life.

I don’t expect a genie to pay me a visit on Father’s Day. However, I believe that the wishes I would make will be achieved anyway. Like most dads, I am always looking to the future, and I never want to hear myself say, "If my kids had taken martial arts;maybe things would have been different."

 

action PRINCIPLES

By Bill FitzPatrick

Learn

There is always more to learn. Your employees, family, friends and even your competitors may all have suggestions that you can put to profitable use.

Be open-minded. Observe, read and listen. Be open to the fact that lots of people are going to have ideas worthy of your consideration. Welcome them. Incorporate the better ideas into your business and personal dealings. Find new ideas in books, magazines, videos, audiotapes, newsletters and on the Internet.

Find new ideas at conventions, seminars, lectures and by taking evening courses. Seek new experiences and adventures. He who dares...wins.

We must guard against being unchangeable or apathetic.

 

Healthkick:

Beware of Low-Carb Claims

by Jennifer G. Galea MS RD

What do low carbohydrate claims, such as "carb smart," "carb aware," "carb countdown," "carb fit," and "carb sense," actually mean? In a word: nothing.

You shouldn’t see the actual term "low carb" on any food labels, since that term has not been defined by the Food and Drug Administration (FDA). Such health-related claims must be defined by the FDA before they can be used on labels. Instead,many manufacturers are using other terms to imply lower carbs without actually saying it, and without having to back up their claims. In contrast, if a product claims to be "reduced-fat”or "reduced-calorie," the statement needs to be supported by a comparison to the "regular" product, right there on the label.

A bizarre term being used is "net carbs." Manufacturers arrive at this number by subtracting sugar alcohols, fiber, and other carbohydrates that they say have "minimal impact on blood sugar." But can they prove their claim with any research proving the impact of their product on blood sugar? And is blood sugar the only thing we care about when evaluating the carbohydrate content of a food?

Effect on blood sugar is definitely NOT the only thing we are concerned with when evaluating a food product. As with any food product in a diet,we need to evaluate the entire composition of the diet and compare that to the body’s nutrient needs. Always look for "real" foods that pack the most nutrition into the fewest calories. Focus on the type of carbs you are eating, such as whole grains, fruits and vegetables, rather than on the absolute number of grams. Limit added sugars.Avoid saturated fats and trans fatty acids. And always incorporate exercise into your healthy lifestyle.

Just because your carbohydrate intake is low doesn’t mean that you will lose weight, or that your body fat will be low. "Low carb" foods (no matter what the label may claim) aren’t "free" foods, or even necessarily healthy foods!

 

Martial Arts Success Stories

Personal Profile
Joshua Taylor, Age 18

"Son, I met a black belt at church today," dad said casually. Little did he know that the teacher he just met would change my life. I gingerly began training and soon fell in love with the art. Years passed, the school grew, and so did I. Nevertheless, the spirit remained the same. I’m still a tiny kid in a brand new world. My interest blossomed into a way of life, and soon I began to apply all that I learned about effort, discipline and self-control. With a martial arts lifestyle I’ve achieved success in school, proficiency from training, and the best group of friends anyone could ever ask for. Now, nine years later, I wish I could say all I feel in 150 words. In reality, the only way I could ever do my teachers justice, is live my life in a manner which would make them proud. I humbly implore all who read this: Learn all you can, teach all who will listen, and be proud to call yourselves martial artists.

Joshua Taylor is a student at Villari’s Self Defense and
Fitness owned by James & Vicki Schulenburg



Give Dad a Gift That Will
Positively Change His Life!

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• Physically Fit
• More Energetic
• Less-Stressed
• Skilled in Self-Defense

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